I was just wondering if this kinda thing is a common occurence:
I bought a smurf from ebay on the 17th Nov from the US and paid airmail postage for it. I waited 2 weeks for it to arrive and then sent an email asking where it was. The seller waited a few days before responding and then said "Oh I am so sorry. I completely forgot. I've been very busy. I will post it Monday (6th Dec)" which was nearly a week after she sent the email (a Tuesday). So that made it about 3 and a half weeks before she actually was going to post it. I waited until the 16th for it and then just lodged a Paypal buyer complaint because if I waited for the smurf to turn up it would be too late to file a claim. It's very frustrating. I felt bad about filing the claim as she said it was on the way but if I left it and it didn't turn up then I'm screwed! I sent her an email telling her that I would be contacting paypal and tried to explain why it was necessary.
The smurf is still not here. I checked yesterday. It should take 7-10 days and 10 days are up now but it could take longer with all the Christmas post. I am figuring she was just fobbing me off until the 30 days were up so I couldn't file a claim. Fingers crossed and she wasn't and it'll turn up next week. Also she hasn't left feedback so thats a stress too.
Linda